Friday, May 4, 2007

Lessons Learnt In Life

Dear god

Please forgive Mary. Mary had been a nonsense last year. Last year was the year Mary turned 21. Mary tried to be funny by not going to school and hanging out late at night. Mary really thought that she was somebody with her little lamb but in actual fact, she is nobody at all. Mary has no achievements, no assets and many liabilities. Mary gained endless scars in her memories which made her too tired to continue the journey call life. One fine day, Mary woke up from her dream and saw reality. Reality told Mary its time to let go. Mary gave a thought on what reality told her and revise what she had done for the whole year and realized that she had learnt a big lesson in life.

This has been an expensive lesson learnt. Mary learnt that in life, she just has to be moderate. She has to accept the art of letting go. Art of letting go is to stop telling people you were once somebody. Nobody cares who you are in the past. A millionaire? A scholar? A champion? What people see is who you are now. What people look at is what you do next. In fact, life is just a handful of sand. You are the hand and life is the sand. If you grab it too loosely, you will lose them all. If you grab them too tightly, you will realize that you wouldn’t be able to gain the fullest because the capacity of your palm is the minimum when you clench it tight. Know what to grab, what to let lose and what to keep. Grab your dreams, keep on with your positive attitude and let go of your useless thoughts.

Mary also learnt another theory. That is you are who you are. You are who you are because of the things you did yesterday. And yesterday is already a cancelled cheque. Don’t waste the next 86400s of tomorrow to ask yourself what you did not do yesterday. Don’t blame the world. Don’t blame your parents. Don’t blame your ancestors. Wake up, people. The world will not change because of you. You have to change yourself to fit the world. Stop expecting government to provide you your basic needs. They are not your slaves and you have got to pay a high price for that kind of services.

Mary had realized her mistakes. Please forgive Mary.

Other Lessons Learnt in Life

1) Forgive & Forget: (By Lum)
Forget the one who hurt u & forgive urself for carelessly got hurt.

2) What goes ard, comes ard: (By Lum)
You bully others now, others will bully you in the future.

3) The art of Give & Take
He gives u something, & takes away everything.

4) Love isn't blind
Its just that u choose 2 look at the positive side of e person. If ppl can practise this in their work/life, they are 1 step ahead of being a highly effective person. Be proactive. Live life, enjoy life.

5) Faith
Faith is just what u need 2 get what u want. *It is a state of mind tt may be created by repeated instruction 2 e subconscious mind.(*Think & Grow Rich)

6) Asset VS Liability
I am my parent's present liability (spend $ on me) and future asset (earn $ for them).

7) I'm not stupid
When someone dun understand what are u teaching, say i'm stupid instead of u're stupid. Cos u are the one who dunno how 2 teach. Why did I say this? I came across a father teaching her daughter in Macdonalds. He was so loud that I couldn't concentrate on my own studies and I started observing them. The father was so impatient and spoke louder and louder. This made the child inferior and she didn't dare to say she don't understand. I just feel that such person don't fit to be a father. What is worse? He told her daughter you will win if you are louder then others. I was disappointed and I really feel like giving the father 1 tight slap. Really...

8) Time = Money
Yi cun guang yin yi chun jin, chun jin nan mai chun guang yin

9) Mix with the Right Group
Mix with the people who drives, you will drive.

10) Think with ur Brain, nt Heart
Don't let feeling affect u while u are thinking, especially in relationship.

11) What you Focus Expands
Don't assume when something don't happen on you, that incident does not exist. Things expand only when u focus on them. Example when you start to look at cars, maybe BMW, you will find the streets filled with BMW. Sad to say, those are other's. Don't just envy, Work hard for yours.

12) Power of Focus
Only with a magnifying glass then you can use Sunlight to light things up.

13) Need VS Want
A mature person do what he NEEDs to do & not what he WANTs to do.

14)Kindness in not equal Weakness (By Humphery)
Don't take my kindness as my weakness. Once I lost trust in you, I will nv believe u again.